At the risk of sounding overly confident, I have to say that Joy Toyz really stands out when it comes to doing adult home parties (in our region). I say this because the recurring comment is, “wow, you guys actually teach at parties and your products are so much better.” And it amazes me every time I hear this because I take for granted what is normal for me is not what others do. But I am very pleased because this means I am doing a good job.
I truly believe that my job as a sex toy consultant is not just selling these goodies, but to enlighten women about the benefits of having a healthy and fulfilling sex life. And I do this by offering all my knowledge at these parties. To shy away from so called taboo subjects means that I am not doing my job to educate those who seek information. Everyday is an opportunity to learn new facts or even sex tips.
Hmmm yummy edibles
At a typical sex toy party or bridal shower, I start with the edibles, body dust, and massage oils. Each guest can then taste and feel the difference in flavors and textures. Our best seller, the Kama Sutra Oils of Love is a water-based liquid which heats up when you blow and lick. It won’t break down latex condoms but it is still recommended to wash off before getting in contact with the vagina during penetration.
I continue on to kegel exercisers such as the Fun Factory Smartballs and Ben Wa balls. They are different in size and material, but offer the same benefits of strong PC muscles. Flexing your kegels on a daily basis helps after giving birth, as we age and lose elasticity, for urinary problems or to enhance sexual pleasure. I go into this much more detail during the presentation or in person after the party.
Knowing what goes into sex toys are very important, especially as some materials contain potentially toxic chemicals. I point out the pros and cons of Jelly, Silicone, Glass, Plastics, Metals and Elastomers. Of course I am biased and will often suggest toys made of silicone over jelly because it is porous and breaks down much faster than silicone toys. And for the feeling of luxury I recommend glass or stainless steel.
Oh so many vibes, where to begin?
With so many different toys to choose from, I help you decide by going over the features of vibrators, dildos, rabbit vibes, bullets and more. Don’t worry if this will be your first time buying a toy. It’s better to start small then upgrade to something better later on. I am less concerned about pitching you an expensive toy than making sure that you end up a satisfied customer.
Then I bring up the taboo subject of anal play. I understand that this type of play can be intimidating due to the stories you hear or previous experiences. But when you practice patience and add lots of lube, anal sex can be feel really really good. Since backdoor play can involve certain risks, I go over the importance of lubrication and safe sex.
This is pretty much the summary of my presentation, sprinkled with lots of laughs & giggles, funny stories, and games. Each party is different because the people are different. My core presentation doesn’t change but the toys do. I just love introducting the toy of the month like the We-Vibe which was a hit! And no wonder, a g-spot vibe that is worn internally but can still be used during penetration – how cool is that?
But don’t take my word on it. I highly recommend that you shop around before making your decision. But if you want to book a Joy Toyz party please give us a call at least 3 weeks to ensure availability.
Dial (514) 845-8697 or reach us be e-mail info[@]joytoyz.com (take out the brackets) or book us online.
